Dr.
Ruwan M Jayatunge M.D.
Jose Naroskey once said “In war, there are no
unwounded soldiers” Undeniably war has a profound effect on soldiers. It has a
catastrophic effect on their health and wellbeing. I have met a number of
soldiers around the globe who belonged to different Armies and various military
organizations. Many of them are still affected by the reminiscences of the
traumatic combat events. I recall some
lines of Nancy L. Meek’s poem ‘The Sacrifice. In this poem she describes the
state of mind of a soldier on returning from a war. This is what Nancy L. Meek
writes…
“Will he ever
find peace here on this earth?, Before death’s fingers encircle his throat, Or
will peace remain just beyond his girth, Abandoning him eternally to a land
remote” (The Sacrifice- Nancy L. Meek)
Victor the Red Army
Soldier
Victor was my hostel roommate when I was studying
at the Vinnitsa National Medical University –Ukraine. While Victor was studying
for his medical degree he was drafted and sent to Afghanistan to fulfill his
international combat service. He had served two years in Afghanistan. Before
going to Afghanistan he was a naive and a bright student. He returned
from Afghanistan as a changed man with emotional scars.
In 1979 Soviet premier Leonid Brezhnev decided to
send troops to Afghanistan. Although it was a proxy war Afghan rebels were
deadly. They constantly attacked the Soviet defense positions. First the
regular army went to fight the rebels. Later young people like Victor were
drafted to support the regular troops. Eventually this conflict came to be
known as the “Soviet Union’s Vietnam War”. The Soviet war in Afghanistan lasted
for nearly nine bloody years.
Many young boys who went to Afghanistan had a
dream. This dream was to buy a Japanese TV or a SONY or JVC video deck which
were luxury items under the Soviet Socialist Regime. Some boys lost their arms
and legs but still managed to bring those luxury items home. When Victor
returned after fulfilling his military duties he brought a Sharp audio cassette
player. But soon he lost the interest and gave it to his cousin. As his
relatives and friends noticed, after Victor returned from Afghanistan he had
changed remarkably. He had met fierce battle in Kandahar with the Mujahedin
rebels and sustained an injury to his right shoulder. Also he sustained a
concussion. Victor could not concentrate on his studies and started failing
exams.
As a young student I adored rock and heavy metal
music. When I played AC/DC (For those about to Rock), White Snake (Silver Nights),
Deep Purple (Highway Star), Metallica(The Unforgiven) Ozzy Osbourne(Crazy
Train) Victor became jumpy. He frequently asked me to turn off the music.
Then I knew he couldn’t bear loud noises. He had a bad temper. He often became
conflictive. Some nights Victor could not sleep and he had nightmares. During
the exam period this became a problem to both of us. He knew that he was
troubling his roommate and at nights he used to consume large volumes of
Vodka and then go to sleep. So his health was falling apart.
Victor never liked to talk about his Afghan
experiences. One day an unexpected thing occurred. It was a winter night and we
were having dinner together. I offered him a cup of Ceylon
tea.
“This is nice tea” Victor said.” It is ideal
to make Chefeer ”
What is Chefeer ?I asked
“That is a drink soldiers make in the army.
In Afghanistan we used to drink Chefeer frequently.
Victor said that sometimes the Russian soldiers
used to indulge in highly concentrated Georgian tea which was called Chefeer .
This highly concentrated tannin drink gave them some sort of kick to wash away
their isolation in the Afghan mountains.
“It was too tough”he said suddenly. He
dropped his fork and looked in to my eyes.
”We were fighting Dushmans (the Afghan
Rebels) in the mountains. They were supported by the US and Pakistan. Some
carried M16 machine guns. They killed a lot of Soviets. I saw how our boys died
in the Afghan mountains. Every week they were sending bodies from Kabul to
Moscow, Leningrad or Kiev.
“But now the President Gorbachev says that it
was a mistake to send Soviet troops to Afghanistan” I interrupted
Suddenly Victor became annoyed.
“Hell with Gorbachev, they should have
thought it before sending us to that godforsaken country, do you know that we
lost over 25,000 boys? For what? Who is responsible for those poor souls? You
tell me”
Victor became more and more emotional so I had to
divert the conversation. I lived nearly one year with Victor in our hostel
room. He disturbed me hugely but in the same time taught me many lessons of the
war. His Afghan combat experiences later inspired me to write the novel –
Ivange Lokaya (Ivan’s World) that was published by the Wijesuriya Publishers.
In 2005 I saw Fyodor Bondarchuk ‘s movie 9th
Company – the movie about the Soviet War in Afghanistan. According
to some film critics 9th Company was equivalent to Oliver Stone’s famous
movie Platoon. After watching the 9th Company I realized the
hardships experienced by young soldiers like Victor in the Afghan mountains.
The Ukrainian
Partisan
Once our University organized a Victory Day
celebration over the NAZI Germany and invited several soldiers who fought
against the Hitlerite forces. I specifically remember the story of Mr. Ivan
Guminuk who fought the Third Reich soldiers in the German occupied Ukraine.
This is what he said to us.
“I was born near Kiev and when the Germans
invaded our motherland violating the Brest-Litovsk pact I was a 16 year old
lad. By that time I was working in a factory as a manual labourer and attended
the night school. I was eager to learn German and I could speak the German
language fairly well.
When the Fascists soldiers invaded Ukraine they
killed many people. Jews were deported or hanged publicly. I witnessed many
public executions. There are many mass unmarked graves near Kiev, the city of
Vinnitsa , Uzhgorod and Lvove. They deported young men and women to work as
slaves in Germany. The food was rationed and the native population suffered
immensely. Only the NAZI sympathizers and collaborators got constant food supplies.
People like us partially starved. There was no meat, butter or milk. People
used to eat unpalatable Garrokh (Dhal).
The NAZI s had an efficient administrative system
and they knew each and every person living in the occupied territory. During
the occupation I was living in the Vinnitsa region. I was an underage but I was
photographed and given papers. Every month we had to report to the regional
headquarters in Vinnitsa town. There were rumors that once we turn 17 we would
be taken to the German city of Ruhr to work in the coal mines. It was
terrifying news for my family. I decided to go underground. I joined a secret
partisan group that operated in Ukraine. We had a very small amount of arms,
mostly old rifles. We Partisans used to hide in the woods and attack the German
supply lines. Sometimes we used to destroy railway tracks by placing
explosives. To uplift the morale of the people we used to display posters in
public places.
It was a deadly game. If you are caught with a
pistol or a rifle or explosives in your hands you are either shot on the spot
or hanged by piano wires in public. Even to have anti-NAZI posters or documents
in your possession was an offence punishable by death. We used to carry
bees honey to stick the posters on the walls. Often we did it by dawn aiming
public gathering places like markets and churches. Some of our brave comrades
fell in to the noxious German hands while operating underground. All were
executed.
While operating underground one of our comrades
brought us an important massage. The Germans were constructing a massive
building complex in the forest of Vinnitsa region. The informer told us foreign
workers from Norway were brought to work in this complex. At the end of the war
we came to know that these Norwegian workers who were enslaved to build it were
shot in cold blood by the NAZI soldiers and buried in a mass grave. Later the
Red Army excavated this mass grave and found decomposed bodies.
When we first heard about this construction site we
thought that the Germans were building a military base to expand their military
muscle. But our reconnaissance patrols told us a different story. It was a
heavily guarded complex and day and night people worked. Hundreds of truck
loads went to the woods taking building material. Despite the heavy
security some of our partisans infiltrated the complex. Then we knew that
Hitler was building a headquarters in the forests of the Vinnitsa region.
Adolf Hitler had a plan to rule the entire Europe from
this underground center. He needed a focal point to establish his future
headquarters and he had selected Vinnitsa Ukraine as the center. Hitler was
fascinated by being in Vinnitsa; he liked the weather and the vegetation. Some
say that it reminded him his native Bavaria. Even Hitler and Herman Goring had
visited this complex and spent some time in this secret underground bunker
complex.
When the Ukrainian Partisans got the news that
Hitler was in Vinnitsa a message was sent to Moscow immediately.
This secret massage went up to General Georgy Zhukov and then passed to
Stalin. Moscow replied us promptly, do not attack the supply lines or
continue any sabotage work. They asked us to stop all the hostilities and
observe the movements carefully.
Perhaps the Red Army wanted to capture Hitler alive
but he never returned to Vinnitsa again and after the Stalingrad debacle the
German high command lost their interest in this underground center which was
called “Werewolf”. They knew that they were losing the war and abandoned
the plan to rule Europe.
When they retreated from Ukraine they demolished
the underground complex. I was overjoyed and even cried when Ukraine was
liberated but when they left they had killed and tortured our population. We
still live with those horrors but personally I have no repulsive feelings
towards the German people. It was not the German people who committed
atrocities in Ukraine. Those were NAZI s and they consisted of Germans,
Rumanians, some Italians and even Ukrainian Stephan Bandera fractions”
Mr Guminuk’s narration captured the audience and
after this narration a group of University students visited this historical
site. Today Hitler’s bunker complex or the Nazi ‘Werewolf’ is a tourist
destination. But there are no buildings on the surface except some huge concrete
blocks. Some military historians say that Hitler probably had spent
about 2 to 3 months in the Werewolf Bunker outside of Vinnitsa.
Supposedly, the bunker was 7 stories deep and a couple football fields in size.
Hitler ordered to blow up the Werewolf when he was convinced that the defeat
was inevitable. Explosives were set and the Werewolf was blasted from
inside and subsequently bombed from the air. . It has been said that when the
bunker was blown up, the impact was felt by the every living creature in the
city of Vinnitsa.
Nazi ‘Werewolf’ has not been excavated to this day
because the archeologists believe that there are still unexploded bombs which
were deliberately left by the German Army.
When we visited this site I was thinking how
Hitler’s megalomania consumed millions of lives. How many lives had been
perished for an ideology? A few hundred meters away from the Werewolf there is
a mass grave with a statue of three crying men. This is the place where the
14,000 Norwegian laborers were buried.
Mr. Arthur
the British Soldier
I met Arthur in Walthamstow Central London
somewhere in 1987. He had been a solder in the British Army and served in
domestic reserves. I could not take part in the D Day but we had fearsome air
war in Britain said old Arthur.
“The Luftwaffe bombing of England was
dreadful. After the air raids we found many people dead in the rubble. Mostly
the victims were civilians. Although England was never successfully invaded
perhaps due to its geography Hitler constantly bombed major English cites to
lower our morale. General population suffered hugely. Everything was rationed,
butter, cheese, petrol, you name it, practically everything, so the black
market thrived”
After the War Arthur re-entered the civil society
and worked as a factory worker until his retirement. Arthur’s wife died several
years ago and his son moved to Leeds. So he lives alone. To minimize his
isolation and wistfulness he raises a bulldog. He treats the dog like a family
member often talking and cuddling him. Although it had been many decades after
the WW2 Arthur still recalls the devastation that was caused by the air war in
England.
Mr LXX the
Sri Lankan WW2 Veteran
I met Mr. LXX at the ex-servicemen’s ward at the
Military Hospital Colombo while he was under the care of Col Dr. (Mrs.) N.K
Ariyarathne – Consultant Physician. He had Hypertension and Diabetes
Mellitus. Dr. N.K Ariyarathne referred Mr. LXX to me following insomnia.
But after a brief intervention he was able to sleep well and
discharged within a few weeks.
Mr. LXX told me his life story as a soldier under
the British Empire. He joined the military during the World War 2 as a private
and had a brief physical training in Sri Lanka. They haven’t had extensive
weapon training. The British Army recruited the local youth to the Army not to
fight the Axis Forces but to do clerical and manual work. It was a new
experience for the unemployed Sri Lankan youth and they had the opportunity to
see the world at the government expense. Many Sri Lankan troops were stationed
in Egypt and Italy. They helped supply arms, ammunition and food to the
warfront. A small fraction of Sri Lankan soldiers engaged the enemy in Burma
and Malaya. According to the reports they fought bravely and earned respect
among the British officers.
Mr. LXX had served in Bombay and in Cairo as a
soldier helping the Allied Gigantic Military Machine. May be he was as an
insignificant bolt in this giant war machine. There were many of them but their
efforts helped the warfront. Today we are respected by the British Government
expressed Mr. LXX. “They value our service and still pay us a pension. Our
numbers are decreasing annually. But we are proud to pay our honor to the
fallen comrades on the Memorial Day”
After our first meeting I met Mr. LXX at the
OPD several times and each time I was happy to help him. After 2006
I had no contacts with him. A few years ago I met one of our junior doctors who
worked at the ex-servicemen’s ward and she told me that Mr. LXX passed away
peacefully under her care.
Lt BX47 – The
Officer who witnessed the Deaths of Seven Soldiers
Lt BX47 served in the Sri Lankan Army and met with
a traumatic battle events in Paranthan Jaffna in 1999. He witnessed the deaths
of seven of his soldiers. He explained his horrendous experience thus.
“It was like thunder when the mortars fell on
us. Seven of our soldiers were near a Kovil and I was several meters away from
them. I heard the zooooo….. noise and then I knew it was an incoming mortar and
I lay on the ground. The other soldiers had no time to go down and
I saw how their bodies smashed in to thin air. I was near a concrete well and
undoubtedly it saved my life. Although I was physically unharmed I was in a
shock. Blood came through my nostrils and I don’t know how I bled. My men were
dead and scattered on the ground. Their bodies had been mutilated due to the
explosion. One soldier was gasping and he asked for water. But he could
not hold his breath for longer. He died after several minutes.
The entire area was covered with black smoke and dust;
I could not see more than five meters a head. I started crawling. While I was
crawling the enemy fired a number of mortars towards our direction. My aim was
to move away from that devastated point. I gathered my entire body strength and
moved forward. While I was crawling I found a group of our soldiers and they
helped me. But I have severe memory gaps and I don’t know how I came to Colombo
from Paranthan.
After this terrible incident Lt BX47
had nightmares, intrusions and severe startling reaction. He avoided any reminders
of the trauma.
After he became a psychological casualty Lt BX47
had to face many psychosocial problems. His Unit refused to recognize him as a
battle casualty since he had no physical wounds. Some officers accused him of
being a malingerer. Only a very few understood the suffering that he underwent.
He had severe survival guilt and he accused himself for leaving his men in
Paranthan Jaffna. He personally felt responsible for their deaths.
When his illness progressed he had no aim in life.
Although he was newly married he was not interested in his marital life.
He could not concentrate on his work and study for the promotional exams. His
memory was fading. On numerous occasions he lost his temper and acted with
extreme hostility. The traumatic memories of Paranthan was imprinted on his
mind and made him dysfunctional. On one occasion he planned to end his life.
Fortunately his life was saved. After
this attempted suicide he was referred to the Combat Trauma treatment Center at
the Military Hospital Colombo. He was diagnosed with PTSD by Dr. Neil Fernando-
Consultant Psychiatrist of the Sri Lanka Army.
Lt BX47 gave his consent to undergo treatment and
he was treated with medication and psychotherapy. His traumatic intrusions were
desensitized by EMDR and Cognitive mode of therapies helped him to regain
insight. Medication helped him to fight the altered brain chemistry that was
caused by combat related psychological trauma. Gradually he realized that he
was not responsible for the deaths of his soldiers. He was able to come to
terms with the prolonged survival guilt. Psychosocial
rehabilitation helped him to rebuild his social and professional life. Today
LtBX47 is a father of two children and got his due promotions and is leading a
productive life.
Lance
Corporal HJXX- The Vietnam Veteran
In 2006 I was undergoing psychotherapy training at
the Coatesville Veterans Hospital in Philadelphia under the renowned Clinical
Psychologist Dr. Susan Rogers. There I met a number of Vietnam veterans
and I specifically remember Lance Corporal HJXX who told me an unforgettable
story of the war. His story still echoes in my mind and I still recall his
words.
He went to Vietnam when he was just 18 and suddenly
found himself in an unfamiliar country with numerous hostilities. Life in
Vietnam was uncertain said Lance Corporal HJXX.
“When we
went to Vietnam to fight Communism we considered Vietnamese as sub humans. We
were proud US marines. We called them Gooks.
We were surrounded by booby traps and hostile North Vietnamese Forces.
But we fought them with courage.
I worked as a Radio Operator and called Napalm
attacks by air. I had destroyed many Vietnam villages by requesting air
attacks. But there was no end to it. Yet the enemy was active. After finishing
my tour I came home as a tired soldier. I saw no welcome home signs. We were
sidelined by the society. They have forgotten the Vietnam saga. But we
couldn't.
After coming home we had to fight another battle. The
battle of Vietnam recollections that hounded our lives. I was moving from job
to job and drinking heavily to ease my emotional pain.
Today I am
in my old age. When I see my grandchildren I remember what had occurred in
Vietnam. I feel that I had helped to destroy men women and children in
those Vietnamese villages. Most certainly I had killed little children like my
grand kids by requesting air attacks. Today I am repenting for
those actions. Now I know the value of a human life. Life is precious. Life is
something sacred and has to be treated with respect.”
The Gulf War
Veteran
I met the Gulf War Veteran RGXX at the Coatesville
Veterans Hospital in Philadelphia. RGXX belongs to the new generation of
combatants. He had served in the 2nd Gulf War (The military campaign which
began with the invasion of Iraq by forces led by the United States). He was
stationed in Mosul Iraq. While serving in Mosul he was exposed to traumatic
combat events and became a psychological casualty of the Gulf War.
A considerable number of veterans like RGXX came
home with horrendous memories of the war. Many veterans have been diagnosed
with GWS (Gulf War Syndrome) which is characterized by chronic fatigue,
headache muscle pain, neurologic signs memory loss,
sleep disturbances gastrointestinal symptoms and cardiovascular symptoms. After long
term therapy and rehabilitation he is recovering. He wishes to go to NY and
start a new life.
The
Ex-Soldier and the Healer
Terry is a special person who had served in Vietnam
as a combatant and now completely dedicates his life to treat combatants with
war trauma as a mental health clinician. Terry was introduced to me by
Dr. Mahasen De Silva -US Board Certified Psychiatrist of the Colmary O’Neal
Veteran Administration Topeka Kansas. (As far as I know Dr. Mahasen De Silva is
the only Sri Lankan who is treating the Vietnam veterans in a VA Hospital).
Terry is a very constructive person and I have
learnt many positive psychotherapy tips from him. He went to Vietnam when he
was just eighteen and saw the naked reality of the war. After serving his term
we returned to the United States with numerous life experiences. A large
percentage of ex combatants who returned from Vietnam had readjustment
problems. The American society was very critical and judgmental towards them.
Many ex-servicemen began to drink and abused drugs to break the isolation.
When other veterans were fighting a new war after
coming home Terry took a different path. He began to study and analyze the war
trauma. There were many psychosocial challenges in front of him. Terry
took these psycho social issues as life challengers and faced them
positively. He studied combat psychology and joined the VA.
Since he was a soldier Terry understands the problems
of the war veterans very well and he is very empathetic to the combatants who
are struck by the war. Today he is rendering a comparable service to the war
torn soldiers at the Colmary O’Neal Veteran Administration Topeka Kansas.
Roland Glenn the Soldier
Who Fought in Okinawa
In 2010 my friend Roland Glenn of Kittery USA
requested me to write a review to his autobiographical war memoirs “The Hawk
and the Dove: World War II at Okinawa and Korea” As an Infantry Combat Company
Commander, he saw significant action during the battle of Okinawa.
“I was in charge of leading about 200
soldiers, an enormous amount of responsibility for someone 20 years old says
Glenn. The killing of fellow human beings in the name of democracy
remains my most vivid memory. I was brainwashed to think of the Japanese as
sub-human monkey runts. I totally believed in the mission to obliterate the
Japs. I was trained to kill and that is exactly what I did on Okinawa but there
is nothing in our training that really prepares us for the taking of another
human life. I have written my book about my own recovery from the traumas of
combat.”
His book is a first-person account of the horrific
hand-to-hand fighting at Okinawa, where 12,500 Americans died. Glenn was a
brave soldier and was awarded both the Purple Heart and the Bronze Star.
Glenn’s book “The Hawk and the Dove” is the first hand account of a WWII
combatant who fought in Okinawa and Korea. The author vividly describes his
transformation from an innocent Pennsylvanian young lad to a fully-fledged
combatant. During the War the author undergoes profound traumatic battle events
and comes home as a hero but with the displeasing memories of the war. After
coming home his second battle begins and he fights the next enemy – combat
related PTSD which he overcomes with his will and determination and innate love
for the humanity.
One marvelous thing about this book is throughout
the book the author has not lost the human touch and his feelings for the
fellow soldiers and even for the enemy. Yet after 50 years of the War, he still
recalls the upsetting event in which he was compelled to put a bullet through
the head of an enemy (Japanese) soldier. The Hawk and the Dove is one of the
best books on war experience that I have read after Erich Maria Remarque‘s “All
Quiet on the Western Front.”
Today Roland Glenn lives in a small American town
enjoying his retirement. He expresses his views on war in these words.
“I do not think that wars solve problems. I
strongly believe that more serious diplomatic efforts should be undertaken to
resolve international problems. One of my major concerns right now is all the
veterans returning with symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). This
has got to be one of the biggest stories to come out of the Middle East wars.
These veterans will require medical and psychological care for the remainder of
their lives.” I’m hoping that youth who are considering careers in the military
will have the opportunity to read my book. I’m not advocating that young people
not have careers in the military, but am suggesting to our youth that there are
many more options to serve our country and our communities than going to war.”
The IDF Combatant
In 2010 one of my colleagues referred a young
soldier from the IDF (Israel Defense Forces) for EMDR (Eye Movement
Desensitization and Reprocessing). He was a young guy who was on vacation in
Canada to see his relatives. The said combatant had participated in several
life threatening missions in Israel and he was troubled by nightmares and
intrusions. There was no marked avoidance in him and he showed positive
clinical picture of partial PTSD. He underwent six EMDR sessions and in each
session his psychological distress reduced up to a significant level.
The Canadian Peacekeeper
I met Sergeant HXXV in Hamilton Ontario several
years ago. He was in the Canadian peace keeping contingent that served in the
former Yugoslavia.
Peace keeping is tough says Sergeant HXXV. “Sometimes
you are helpless and just become a spectator who is helplessly watching
atrocities. It gives you a paralyzed feeling with a sense of defeat and sense
of guilt. Even after coming home these feelings are with the peace keepers. It
does not leave you. We peace keepers
live with that feeling in the rest of our lives”
The Former Child
Soldier
In 2009 I went to buy some
refreshments at a convenience store at Don Mills and Shepherd in North York. At the
counter there was a young Sri Lankan Tamil guy and he easily recognized me as a
Sinhaleses. It was a few months after Prabhakaran’s death and some of the Tamil
Diaspora living in Canada were extremely hostile to the Sinhala people.
When he saw me his faced changed. I could read his eyes. It said “I wish I
could have you for my lunch you Sihalese …” But he suppressed his hostile
feelings and served me as a usual customer.
After this incident I had to go to this
convenience store several times and every time he was unfriendly. One day I met
him face to face at the store and I greeted him by saying “Wannakam” He was
stunned but returned my greeting. After this incident his attitude towards me
was better. Once on my regular visit to the store I wanted to verify a dental
product and I spoke to him in broken Tamil (Dr. Ram Manohar who worked with me at
the Negombo Hospital taught me Tamil words and some phrases. Later Ram became
the JMO Jaffna Hospital and is now living in the UK) He explained about the
product to me in a very friendly manner. Later he asked me who I was etc and we
became acquainted with each other.
Within several months we became friends and
once he told me his life story. To conceal his identity I would call him Sathi.
Sathi was from Prabhakaran’s village Valvettithuraiand he knew Prhabahakaran
and his family. Sathi decided to join the LTTE when he was very young. As a
child soldier Sathi participated in several attacks that were launched against
the Sri Lanka Army. But he did not precisely mention these attacks.
After serving in the LTTE for some years, he came
to Colombo and accidentally met a relative. This relative had offered him the
option of going abroad. First they thought of going to Norway or Australia.
Sathi’s relative had a friend in Canada. So they decided go to Canada. Sathi
and his relative entered Canada as refugees. Today he is a Canadian Citizen and
working in a convenience store.
One day Sathi called me in distress. His
father who is living in Valvettithuraihad suffered a heart attack. He was
helpless and did not know what to do. Knowing my medical background Sathi asked
for my advice.I immediately sent an email to Prof Daya Somasundaram of
the Adelaide University Australia and asked for help. Prof Somasundaram contacted
the Cardiologist at the Jaffna Hospital (who was one of his students) and did
the needful to Sathi’s father. After a few weeks of treatment Sathy’s father
had a complete recovery.
Sahthi thanked me a lot. He never expected such a help
from a Sinhalese guy when he was in dire straits. I think this event changed
his understanding of Sinhala people dramatically. Later Sathi told me that when
he was living in Jaffna they were constantly told that Sinhala people were
ruthless and they are the enemies of the Tamil people. He further said that
this personal incident helped him to change the myths about Sinhala people.
This is a personal incident that occurred
between two people who have come from the same country but with different views
and rivalry. Positive communication helped both parties to eliminate the myths
about each other. This small example allowed me to think in big. If Sinhala and
Tamil people come to a common ground putting aside petty differences, past
antagonisms and work together for peace Sri Lanka would be a paradise once
again.
Conclusion
During these years I have met a number of soldiers
who participated in different wars. These combatants came from different
countries, different societies and different cultures. They had seen death and
destruction in these conflicts. They had witnessed the human suffering.
Although they belonged to different ethnic groups, spoke different languages
their emotional pain is very similar. There is an university in their emotional
anguish. Human pain has no ethnic differences.
I recollect some words of General Omar Bradley who
once said “Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical infants. We know more
about war than about peace, more about killing than we know about living.” I
think Bradley was correct.
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